This is exactly where I am at, you are spot on I feel those thoughts also and until she can put a finger on which one is most important to her there is nothing for me to do but wait and be there for her. I know in my heart she feels me walking beside her, I will catch her if she needs that.
I also am glad she is going to C'ing I hope it will help her on her path to find some direction...
I am in a good place right now, I have gotten back into workingout and lifting, I walk our dog and try to stay as light hearted about all of this as everyone else does...
