I called the W today to inform her that I had cancelled the joint acount and had a cashiers chek for her with half of what was left in it. She took the day off to be alone, as she's realy takeing her dads cancer hard. I told her being alone can be sad and lonlry and if she needs anything, even just some one to vent on how unfair this all is let me know, I'm here for her.

I so want to take her pain away but i dont know how. I gave her a 3 min pep talk and told her be strong before I hung up. I just wanted to tell her I love her but I know she wont take that right.
I called her mom as her dad is at work and whished her all my support as well. I see my W in a lot of pain and I dont know what to do, or if she even wants me to do anything.