I have made this post in the newcomers forum, but I would like to respectfully ask some questions of a WAS. Someone here should be able to give some insight. I don't mean to sound disrespectful or judgmental, I just have a need to try and understand.
Do the WAS feel as hurt and confused about what they have done as the S that was left behind?
Do they have second thoughts about what they have left behind?
Do they realize what kind effect of what they have done to not only their S, but also the other family members that are affected by their decision?
I was just wondering how WAS feels about leaving, Do they feel this is the only way out for them? Do they find what they are looking for? Do they not feel that they another choice?
I am just trying to understand, so I can better prepare myself for what I will experience with my LRT.
