WAW#12

[*KS*Chick*]

How am I throwing a fit with God? I'm not.

Didn't say you were. Point is God allows things to happen in His time, not yours. You are expecting her to come home NOW. TODAY. There are things that need to change with both of you before that can happen so allow Him to work in you. You remember - God change me.

I did call her this morning. I said stop treating me like crap. I have a right to know where my kids are staying.

STOP!!!!!!!

She said I knew they were going to stay down her parents. I said no I didn't you last text said they were going to stay with you. Then at 9 you were blowing up my phone because son wanted to play pirates online on grandpa's computer, and you couldn't deal with it.

Again STOP! Was it her time to be with the kids? You don't have a right to dictate where the kids are! Maybe they wanted to stay with their grandparents.

I don't confer with my ex on every place I take my daughter. You are separated.

I just woke up, and you are going to make me late for work.

Sorry, I'm not going to make you late for work. You are going to make yourself late. I seen you do a thousand things and talk on the phone about nonsense. Stop treating me poorly. I don't care what you do. Just tell me where my kids are at. I though son would stay with me.

AGAIN STOP! Telling her her she sucks as a person, it's no wonder she wont' talk to you Phil. You belittle her and every thing she does. I wouldn't talk to you either.

Well he changed his mind at the last second. Well I said I could have been consulted about it.

She should have clued you in on where they were staying if he was to stay with you.

I do hate the separation of the kids tho. It's like you're the guy so you get your son, and she's the woman so she gets the daughter. They both need your influence.

Everyone is making things too easy for her. The kids stayed down there because she wouldn't have to get up early to drive them down there. Ever think maybe I would drive them down there.

I said ok, I got a clue. Have a good day. She says have a good day too.

You've got to let go of some of the anger. It's not good for anyone. And you can't assume you know what she's doing. Or why.

She just keeps getting worse. I'm not going to put up with it anymore. All I have to do is go to the court house and file for full custody. File for sole possession of the house. Call the loan officer and order the refit. Call the insurance agent back and have her mail the form.

She didn't move from the school district, so I don't she can even file for child support.

I need to call the sherrif and ask about the locks. I want to change the locks before I do any of this stuff. She is going to be a hurricane, which is what I was trying to avoid. Does it bring me any closer to my goals? Nothing I'm doing now is.

Focus, breath, hold breathing on inhale, watch pulse in scope, pull the trigger...

Child support isn't based on where you live. If you're serious about filing for sole custody you better be ready for the fight you're asking for. Are you just wanting a reaction? Or are you seriously done with the waiting/standing for your marriage?

If it's a knee jerk reaction because you're mad well I would reconsider.

If you've thought it over, and prayed heavily, and this is your answer then be ready.