I know how hard it is to hold yourself back. Just last night I knew that H was talking to OW on the phone outside and I wanted to just scream and yell and call her (I have her #) and tell her to back off! But I resisted because I knew it would just cause trouble. Don't do it...I know if I can stop myself then you can stop yours because I am pretty much the weakest willed person in the world :o)
You have so many good signs that things are slowly moving in the right direction, try not to focus on this one negative thing. She is probably just trying to stir things up or cause more tension. Some people are just cruel and find it ammusing. Just know that you are a better person. You don't want to react and do anything that will throw you into negative light right now.
I hope you feel better soon and find away to release this tension.
Niki ;o)
M: 25, H: 29 T: 4 years M: 11 months Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 7/11/08 Found out about OW: 7/12/08 Seperated but living together
