Sorry to hear about your frustrations over the weekend with your H.
I'm also sorry to hear that you're not feeling well. Same here! Both D4 and I got sick over the weekend. It's just that stuffy nose, chest congestion and feeling really tired. Sure doesn't help the situation at all. Makes you feel even more down.
Take care of yourself!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
Thanks Dr... guess what I have it now too!!!! I got the fever.. ugggg.. I can't believe this.
Want the Doctor to come by and rub some mentholated cream on your chest?????
Dr LOve
hey Tal,
I want to apologize to you. What I said was probably inappropriate. (Heck I don't even have a license to practice in most states). Just tying to get ya to Smile.
Hope you are feeling better
Dr LOve .. (Wait don’t they say "practice” makes perfect?
Smile lady
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Pretty much was the whole wkend. I tried to keep my distance, but everytime something came up that went wrong H blamed me for it, and its really getting old. I was ready to call it quits this wkend.
Oh, (((((Tal))))),
You need to talk to H about this. If it all possible, calmly set him down and let him know that he is out-of-bounds, that you understand he must be under a lot of stress and that he is suffering from depressive thoughts and emotions, but it is affecting you and doing great damage to your R.
I think it would be best he sees a physician (if not a counselor) for what is obviously depression. I know you're strong and extremely patient, but he needs to get a rein on this before it does anymore harm, to you, himself and the M.
And please look after yourself too, Tal. I know how stressful and painful this is for you. I know how his poor reaction to life's stressors can harm you, his spouse, in return. Set your boundaries, know your limits, and help coax H to healing himself.
You know how to reach me if you ever need to talk.
dr love... no offense taken, It was funny, and did make me laugh. Yes, and I will take a cup of tea sweetie.. I don't drink cofee, tea drinker here
nc... I know you are right, I just have to get myself well first before I sit him down. I have not felt so badly in a long time.
I was up all night with a fever, and chills and woke up with a horrid headache. H was ok last night, he rubbed my back, which was nice, but at that point I was feeling so bad I didn't want anyone touching me.
My mom called and was crying on the phone to me because she heard from someone that a guy had gotten coxsackie virus and ended up dying because it enlarged his heart and was only 33. (my mom is a very emotional person) So I made an appt with the dr. to ease her mind. Its just a virus and that incident was not the norm in talking with the nurse.. but I wanted to make her feel better so my appt. is at 2pm.
So exhausted, between the boys being sick and trying to take care of myself, I need a maid.
Lots of things running through my head these days.
Thank you my friends for caring.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
on the phone to me because she heard from someone that a guy had gotten coxsackie virus and ended up dying because it enlarged his heart and was only 33. (my mom is a very emotional person) So I made an appt with the dr. to ease her mind. Its just a virus and that incident was not the norm in talking with the nurse.. but I wanted to make her feel better so my appt. is at 2pm.