OW is PG

[Livin4ME]

Nothing new so far. We had a good weekend. I went out Friday night, H stayed with the kids. They were all asleep when I got home. Saturday, he went and spoke with his father. He told me that he looked so disappointed when he told him. I asked if he was ok and he said, I kinda have to be now. That was all that was said about the subject. We hung out that night. Sunday we hung out around the house and with our neighbors, made a game to play outside. Watched some tv that night, then both of us sat at our respective comps for a while.
He's made a few comments about the future. I've replied to his comments, but haven't gotten excited or anything about it. And I'm letting him bring the stuff up.
This morning, OW called him. She wants all the stuff back that she bought him. They were together on and off for almost a year. She was his sugar momma....always buying him stuff. The day he left her, she wouldn't let him get any of his stuff out of her apartment, saying she bought it all and he wouldn't get it back. He was able to get the stuff he originally had back from her tho after threatening to bring the police into it if she refused. He has always left some clothes here at our house and the purpose of this mornings phone call was to get some of those clothes back that she bought. He brought them out and sat them at the table where I was at. I didn't know what he was doing and that's when he informed she wanted EVERYTHING back and that she would be picking them up today at his office. I asked really!? He said yes. I asked what she was planning on doing with it? Throwing it all away!? He said he didn't know. We left it at that. I know it's just another way for her to contact him. And I'm proud of the fact that he got it all together and took it to the office to get it done asap.
I spoke with a church counselor Friday afternoon. It made me feel alittle bit better. We talked about the situation, about my role as a Christian. I'll be seeing her again this week as well.
I'm not saying anything else about the situation to him. Sometimes the urge gets so bad! But I end up getting thru it. If he wants to talk about it, he will bring it up. I know he still has feelings for her, and I can't bash her in any way. That will just make her look better. So instead, I'm focusing on registering for school. Taking care of the kids and the house. My knitting. And a movie that I've had for a week that is still sitting in my DVD player cuz I haven't watched it yet!!!! lol