Ali - He must really have the family stuff still swirling around in his head. It's the only thing that makes sense. He doesn't know what he has with you. Most guys don't get anything at all (me included) during that time of the month. And if you truly enjoy doing this for him then he's has to have a screw loose right now.

I can really empathize with you right now Ali because it is so frustrating to feel like you are in a one-sided relationship. When you are the one trying to give all of the time it does really try your patience waiting for your spouse to appreciate what you are putting into it. It takes a lot to give love unconditionally and it takes strength to give it to someone who is being so stubborn about even receiving it from you.

He must see how blessed he is to have you in his life. I hope my wife will one day see how blessed she is to have me in her life. We have to keep giving to them even when it seems that they don't want us to. It is up to them to see it for what it truly is. Inside of us we know it is a gift, which is the truth, if they choose to reject it, that is up to them. It IS still a gift which cannot be changed by the way that they perceive it.

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