I can see you love her, but dont like her perhaps. She is behaving very very badly toward you - and you know what the best 'revenge' is in these sitches? Go off and be happy. That will show her!
Rob,
Ali is so right on here! That is exactly what I did. I simply put the past in the past and moved on.
I dated several women. I held to my Christian values in these Rs. God sent me the right woman; she is truly my soul mate. We love every moment we spend together. We go to church together almost every week. We pray together. We acquired two small dogs. We were married in November. I built a web site to chronicle our R with wedding pictures. We cleaned out the house. We returned most of my exW's stuff to her. We were blessed to have the financial means to buy lots of new furniture. We have almost completely remodeled our house. I have documented the remodeling process on our web site. We have been blessed with so many other things. I am really happy!
My exW has been by the house to pickup boxes I left on the porch for her. My new W has lots of cutsie decorations out there.
What do you think my exW is thinking after she has seen our pictures (wedding, honeymoon and remodeling) on the web site, what my new W and I have done to the house and reading how happy I am with new W in my blog?
You need to put this tragedy behind you and move on.... You will find a woman who will really love you... A woman who REALLY understands committment....... That woman is waited to be discovered.... Go find her!
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
