Focus on the positive here. Many of us would be happy to be in your shoes....
ILYs? Awesome
Breton can you really hand on heart say that you would willing put up with what Pattie is going through? We keep being told it's actions not words that count. Whilst I cannot possibly know whether Patti's H means his ILYs if I were her I would certainly want some other proof that he meant it.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15