Anyone else hate to admit you're divorced?

[JMC]

Heck, he tells me all the time how much he loves her and misses her and wants to marry her. I can keep it separate for a while, but somewhere during the conversation I shake my head and remember that he's my X and talking to me for relationship advice with his gf, the one he left me for. Talk about feeling you're in the Twilight Zone.

I agree, this is crazy. I was actually telling a friend about this over the weekend. I could not imagine.

I was listening to a similar story on a Christian station yesterday. The H left to be with an OW, but kept contacting the W and would at the end frequently break down crying about what a mess he had made of everything. This woman had become closer to God through her ordeal and commented that, though she was the LBS, she was the stronger of the two. Sadly for this woman, her H died in a car accident before there was a reconciliation.