I struggle with this, Puppy. I just don't want to break their hearts. Not now. Too much going on. I have prepared myself for a convo IF she brings something up. I have told her that I will always be honest with her. IF she asks me, then I will be honest, in an age appropriate way.
If and when she figures it out, I don't feel like it would be on me. Any anger. It will all be on GBG. Her cross to bear, and her mess to clean up.
As it is now, she is going to be dealing with the repercussions of what she has done for years to come. Her demons will keep her busy for a LONG time.
I will have to be the rock for my kids. Be the shining light and example of what it is to be a real man. A strong but forgiving and soft heart. Able to make mistakes, admit them and ask for forgivness.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
