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[Gman3388]

Journaling....
This weekend was odd....but fun.
After I dropped the kids off at there Aunts house I went home.
About 10pm I get a phone call from the W saying that her sister had screwed her over at work and wouldn't close and "just up and left" (her Mom, sister and W all work at the same place.) So She said that she left Sister a text message motherf****g her up one side and down the other for leaving.She said that sister will most likely be crying to mom about this. Also the night manager threatened to fire her if she didn't stop bad mouthing a regular customer seems to hate this woman with a passion for some reason. She was also upset that she couldn't go to the party that night. I told her that she should go aways. She said no and told me thanks that she just needed someone to vent to.
Why me????

I get a phone call later from the W. She asked me if I was hungry. Surprised I said sure I can eat. So she picked me up and we went to a well known greasy spoon where she read the paper most of the time but our convo was light. Nothing about us but more about her night and the crappy service we were getting.
Later on the drive home, (i drove) she had said that we needed to get the car fixed as over the winter the bumper got a little wrinkled by someone backing into it. I didn't say anything. on our last fight I told her to get the car in her name also or get rid of it. just get it out of my name. She said she would but never mentioned it again. A little later she said that maybe (jokingly?) that maybe someone would hit it again this winter.
I laughed a little but didn't say anything.

We went home. She to bed...me to couch.

Sunday morning we woke up and received a phone call from her Other uncle and aunt. They wanted to take the gang shopping and goof around for the day since they were going to be leaving town soon. She said ok and hung up the phone.
W then suggested that we take the dogs out to the sandbar in ohio. (10 min drive from where we live in PA) again surprised I said sure lets go) So we got our bathing suits and headed out.
We all had a good time. Laughing and joking. Our one dog gets into the water and freezes up but our puppy had a great time.
We got out of the water and W checked her phone...made another few calls. We shared a beach chair while the dogs dried off. It was nice to be that close to her again.

We packed up the dogs and on our way out of that town, we stopped for a bite to eat at the local 50's style roadside restaurant. Afterwards I thanked her for a really nice day and she said thank you to me also. Again on the way home she commented on the beautiful day and had said if we had a boat that we would be out on it.
I agreed.

However I thought even if you wanting a divorce you still want to spend time with me???

We went home, showered up (separately of course) and fell asleep on the couches while watching the rest of the race. We woke up in time just before the kids got home. The rest of the evening we shared in the kids stories and watched TV together. Her phone went off a few times with one being an "old friend from my previous stitch" W says they are just friends and made it a point to tell me that. It seems MF father had died and MF made it down south just in time. She spoke to him outside however briefly. I listened to her tell me about what the father went through etc and told her to give MF my condolences.

Later she went to the bar where she works to get stuff for the kids lunch (it is a restaurant too BTW heh)
She was there the better part of the night but finally did come home. She wasn't drinking but she said that her mom and step dad came in. Words where exchanged and from the way my W described it...it wasn't pleasant.
She came home and my mood was light and cheery. She had a cup of coffee and went to bed. I of course went to couch.

So I'm wondering. Why the niceness? Don't get me wrong I like doing things with her but even when we're out she is still connected to that damn phone.
Yes Id rather be friendly compared to some of the things WAW/MLC do but I'm left wondering how can she want me out one day and treat me to breakfast the next????