can you tell me why he is taking so long ( i know its fast compared to most) but what do you think he is processing? i really think he wants to come back to me- one day.... i bet he has to totally turn his mind around- he wanted out and now he is realizing that he wants to stay...so he has to look at a bunch of his own stuff....i just hope he doesn't look too deep or get scared of himself and his stuff...why doesnt he just say F it- i want her back...we all have things to figure out- thats what life is all about....and it takes lifetime to figure it out-
not specifically, obviously, but i would venture to guess that he's afraid of falling back into the same old behaviors (you and him) that created this mess in the first place. I know, for my sake, that i want to make sure that these new behaviors are fully part of me before i jump back in with my W (once she decides that I am definitly changed.) Remember, time is your friend here....trust me.
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
