(((Sara))) FWIW I agree with all of the above. You are no longer required to participate in their drama, but if you WANT to be his friend, then do it. If she has a problem with it, let her take it up with him...not you.

She isn't worth your time and XH is just starting to realize the weight of his actions, there will be more.

You however sound really good and for that I'm so glad. Take care of you.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option