Read your thread, scary similarities to my situation. At least I do not have kids to worry about. Sounds like you are doing better with looking at any outcome as good. I hope I can come around to your way of thinking. Thanks for your thoughts on my thread.
Mike
Me:43 W:38 WAW T: 14 yrs M: 12 yrs No Kids, two cats, dog, horse Bomb 6/23/08 Sep. 6/25/08