I am not over the anger at all I guess. It is not even about her anymore. I told him that if she died, things would still be the same between us. He does not understand that. He thinks she was the problem, when the real problem is us.
He kisses me bye and hello when he leaves for work and gets home from work. Besides that there is no touching at all. The other night he decided he wanted to ML but I disagreed. How can he touch me only when he wants sex and think I will be okay with that? It made me really anger.
And today is our wedding anniversary. 17 years. He got home at 8, gets off work at 6, gave a lame excuse about being late and went straight to bed without even mentioning it. Jerk.
Hi Kelly, sorry you're here, but it's a good place to be for what you're going through. You guys sound a lot like me & H. Except I had the OM. When I first came here I was so angry & didn't think I'd ever get over it.
If you click on my story below, it'll get you started reading my first few threads. If you want....
Just wanted to say hi, & you're not alone.
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
