That is where I am right now. I had to get a lawyer when he did. I'm paying $250/hr.
Your right the next step if/when this gets finalized would be legal seperation....basically only different than divorce in writing and a few legalities.
In your financial situation are you comfortable enough so that if H wants to wander again would you be abe to make it?
This is what scares me. We have nothing in writing and I'm just going by what he is doing now. Then again he's seems to be holding to his word.
And I do love him but I'm so scared of blind trust again.
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I have to say that H never stopped paying the bills. Even at his worst, he kept on paying. He is still paying. Will he wander again--I seriously doubt it. He said this is the worst mistake of his life and will have to live with it the rest of his life as it weighs heavily on his heart what he has done. Mind you, he is still not moved home.
Me financially stable, no, not a chance.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
