Been a strange weekend in that W said she wanted NO CONTACT and yet has text me all weekend.
W again text me tonight, but in a different tone.
W: Hi. Iam sorry I did the exact opposite of what I said I was going to do this weekend. I know I am confusing to you. M: Hey it's okay. W: Part of me wants to file for divorce so you can be at peace and off of this ride I have you on. You deserve to not be put through this. Just my opinion. Not wanting a deep conversation just my thought right now. W: I am not freakin out. I am totally calm. I read a book this weekend watched the race washed the car and started taking vitamins. I am good. M: Good for you. Vitamins are good for you. Iam okay. Worry about you. W: Don't. M: Of course I worry about you. I meant you need to be concerned about yourself not me at this point. W: Well I had one major melt down. Now climbing up. There was only one way to go and I am doing it. M: Yes you are. Good on you. I'm proud of you punk. W: Ah you have not called me that in like forever.
Now there was a few different ways I could have responded to her divorce comment, for some reason I just felt she was searching for just how much I am going to take, and not really wanting out so I thought it was best not to validate it and just be honest and tell her that I am fine. IMO what I said must have been what she wanted to hear, cause then there was some texting after that it consisted of some flirting from both sides started by her so I followed her lead and it ended on a good note.
Well I have no idea where this path is going but it's nice to see her finding herself again in all of this they may not be actions in relation to the M but it does show me that she is trying to change things about her that will in the end work towards the M only time will tell...one day at a time...
