I just sent a message to the moderator. I wasn't advertising and the rules here I just read indicate I can't include advertising.
If we can't include a url to a good article somewhere else on the wwww by someone who has said something better than we have, so we don't have to re-invent the wheel then saving marriages is hopeless. If we are going to be censored for sharing knowledge then there's no hope.
Sorry guys, but I just feel really annoyed about trying to share valuable insight and getting censored for no apparenlty good reason.
I get shut out, shut up, and told to mind my place more than enough at home, i don't need it on the www too.
If I don't hear back I think I am giong to leave this forum. Sorry, but getting censored like that just left me feeling terribly depressed.