Oops, I just now read your post to me. I didn't even see it until after I answered. I'm amazed you are reading my thread. Wow, it's a lot. Thank you. Yes, I have had a hard marriage and that is the real reason, I believe, H wants the D. Sad to say, I'm probably most to blame.
From what I read you are not mostly to blame for your sitch. It will take me a little while longer to get thru it all but the way your H went about it and from what happened to you when you were younger I am amazed at how strong of a person you are.
