Trusting, If you'll allow me...if are in a "helping" profession, I just wonder if your H felt verbally outclassed. You're obviously articulate and very observant and analytical.

I could see how that would make it tough for H to know how to confront effectively.

You also sound very responsible and sharp. Of course, overall this is good (and I am, too). But I am really sick of it, ya know? I am really sick to death of being Mommy Breton to the teenage rebel, and I want to do some crazy things. I wish I had been less responsible and more free and am working in that direction now!!


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M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D