Hopping over to piecing & short intro

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goto ebay or half.com for the tape, I got all the recommended readings on tape.

Thanks! Good idea...I will do that.

Well when H got paid Friday he CASHED his check again and didn't deposit it in the bank. Of course by the time he got home and had to buy a "few" things there was already 100.00 gone from his check. Then he gave me the rest of the cash minus his 20.00 he is supposed to be keeping for the week. Of course by last night (Sunday) he had already spent the 20.00 and was asking for the bank card so he could buy cigarettes today! GRRRRR....I gave him 5.00 and told him I would buy the cigarettes myself today so he didnt' need the card. He was such a jerk...he was a JERK all night long and just kept trying to pick a fight. No DBing on his part at all! You know- there is help for drug addicts and alcoholics...is there any help groups for spend-aholics????

I'm a little bummed out over our budgdet...It is done and he did sit with me for the initial working it up part...but it's only going to work if he does what he agreed to do and I'm very skeptical about that! Also, if all our bills were caught up and we were not behind- there would not be a problem(duh)...but now I'm trying to figure out the BEST way to catch up on the past due stuff and still keep everything else current as well. (btw the past due stuff is our house and land payments...3 months past due on each.)Any great financial wizards out there who have some words of wisdom?