WITHDRAWAL/DEPRESSION #4

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Trusting, this is good. I wanted to post this some time ago but wasn't quite sure how to say. I feel as if I know you see some of us are all following each other rather closely.

At one point you said you told H he had to have some accountability for his behavior...and there have been some other posts where you've sounded....maternal. Which is not bad--except not towards him! Sexy <> maternal (that's a "does not equal," if you're not a geek)

As you know I have not had much success to speak of...but I have decided to cut anything that sounds maternal/non-friend like.

I feel this is good because I think part of it is that H is like a teenage rebel. We're the mom figure. If we can try to have Hs see us as women and partners instead of Responsible Mommies, I think this is a postive thing.

I am trying to indulge in irresponsible behavior. As my time and schedule allow, of course!!