That is where I am right now. I had to get a lawyer when he did. I'm paying $250/hr.
Your right the next step if/when this gets finalized would be legal seperation....basically only different than divorce in writing and a few legalities.
In your financial situation are you comfortable enough so that if H wants to wander again would you be abe to make it?
This is what scares me. We have nothing in writing and I'm just going by what he is doing now. Then again he's seems to be holding to his word.
And I do love him but I'm so scared of blind trust again.
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"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
