Legal separation for me is out of the question because it pretty much leads to divorce. LS here runs $5,000 just to get it put into place and then $250 per hour. I know, I checked into it a few years ago and went to more than one lawyer.
I realized that this is not what I wanted at all and did not pursue it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19