Hey mishka thanks, No offense taken.Both of my children have voiced thier opinions to thier mother.They arent interested in meeting the guy that has tore apart our family(thier words not mine).My feelings are that if we get divorced and she moves on thats just how it is.But for us to still be married ..not a good message for my kids.

Jeff

M 44
W 40
D 21
S 14
Married 20yrs
Together 23yrs
Bomb on 5/14/08 discovered OM
W moved out 5/17/08
w filed for D Feb 09
D final 10/18/09