Say I'm the C and I ask you what your goal is and you say that your M is over and you want to give your new R every opportunity to work. So, even though it's a R that started while you were still married, you want me (the C) to help you make it right and legitimate now..

I have no idea what I'm getting at here other than.. some C's might warn that A's rarely work out as long-term R's and leave it up to the person to make the decision as to whether or not it will be helpful to do pseudo-mc or not.

I do agree with you Karen and for obvious reasons, I think it's a total crock of sh!t!

Donna - I think I'll do that next time I'm forced into seeing ow.. Pretend she's invisible and look right through her...