I was thinking about this today and for some reason it hit me.
I think if H had/has started a new relationship it just may be the last straw.
When he had the affair, I was in shock.We both have lawyers and H has not any forward motion in the financials (since April) and things for me are ....well....o.k. financially.
H still pays thye bills in this house and has given me money for other things. I don't ask for much so it is a good situation for him financially.Since I feel he seems to be peeking I will leave it the way it is.
Sometimes I wounder if I'm even doing the right thing right now> (I question myself on this alot)
If he were to have a new friend that would be it though, as I would have to say " ummm nope, your not going to spend the money on her, when really you are getting away without paying support and child support.... not gonna happen".
Don't know if this is good or bad but I think this is where I would draw the line.
What do you think?
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
