Well she came over. Her mom also just called her TODAY to tell her her dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer. so when she got to mty house I held her for a minute as she cried. then she started grabing stuff to take. I realy tried to look at it from her point of view. she has a new bare place and she has a lot of stuff at mine. I did tear uo a couple of times but i quickley left the room. she told me she was sorry she was hurting me and I told her I wasent, but she smiled and called ma a lier.
She was ok with the bill splitting. I told her she needed to take the truck and she said yeas. ( now if she follows through is another thing, sais she would keep me posted, but it should all be said and done this week.)
she said one good thing I guess "well now that the money will be split now we can see eachother because we want to and not because we have to" I hope she means it. I did call her on the fact she stood me up on tuesday and she did agree she should have at least called. all and all not great but not as bad as I thought it would be.
she told me this was not easy for her, and I looked at her and said " Honey I have not givenb up on you yet. this is just another logical step if we are taking a seperation period. Your my favorit person., and I want you to have zstuff in your new place. Please take care of yourself"
