Thanks everyone for your responses...The subject came up again the other night and I sorta felt him out about how his response would be if I answered all his questions. He still said he would leave if he knew for sure...but I really think like Brian said(I think that was you!) in a previous post- he already knows. He didn't have a angry reaction...but I could tell it upset him. For now, I am choosing to take shinybears advice and do nothing...I will continue to think about it. What I'm thinking I might do is sit him down and tell him that I want to put all of this behind us and if he has any questions about the A to ask them now and lets get it over with so we can move on. If he chooses to not want to know (or actually hear it confirmed)then I won't tell him. For now though...I will just wait and see if he brings it up.
Yesterday was a really sad day- I have this little dachshund that loves to ride in the car with me. He can't always go and doesn't like it when I make him stay so he has gotten to where he will sneak in the car as soon as someone opens the door. He jumps on the floorboard in the backseat and waits until we are on the road to hop up on the seat. Yesterday about 11am i sent my D11 and S9 out to the car to get bag of feed for our horses. About that same time- I went out to the car and opened the passenger door and grabbed my purse off the floor.During one of those times- my little doggie snuck in the car and no one saw him hop in. Poor thing hopped in and waited for the ride that never came...As you can imagine- he didn't make it. At 5pm when D15 was putting her softball stuff in the car she found him. D 15 &D18 (who is a vet tech and used to dealing with stuff like that)had to go get him out for me while I waited in the house with the little ones. D11 cried all the way to her softball game and cried herself to sleep last night...It was horrible. The sad thing is the reason I went to get my purse was so I could go to the bank. I came back in and decided not to go. If I had gone...I would have found him in time. He was my buddy- I'm not much of a dog person- I prefer cats, but for some reason he and I got along great and he always went everywhere with me. Just last week he had snuck in the car and I told him he was gonna get himself killed that way. Very sad- a horrible way to go. My D18 who is also a lifeguard tried to make me feel better by saying that once he overheated he fainted and wasn't in any pain. She says that's what people do when they suffer from heat exhaustion so she's sure that's what dogs do to...I can't say that it made me feel any better. Sorry this has nothing to do with my M sitch...just needed to vent. H didn't have much to say...He buried him for us. We went to the store later that evening and he asked me what was wrong- I just said I was sad and he seemed to respect that. (Normally- he would have accused me of missing the OG when I was down...)It was a quiet evening...and today I really miss my doggie galloping through the house, jumping up and down at the door waiting to go out with me to feed the horses...If it's not one thing...it's another...Why does life have to be so hard?
Sandra
Never argue with idiots, they bring you down to their level and beat you with experience...
