"(am I fat, do these pants make me look fat) - what would she say & would a man think its a genuine statement?"
"If you try "baby I love every inch of you" she hears, he thinks I'm fat. "I love how you look", she hears, he thinks I'm fat & doesn't want to hurt my feelings. "you look gorgeous to me" she hears, maybe I'm not gorgeous to other men, just my H."
Ha ha ha,
I just had to laugh at this one! Somebody's in a good mood. Thanks for the laugh.
poet
Glad you got a laught out of it Poet. I have read all of your first thread and I'm half way thru the second. Wow you have had a hard marriage. Keep going I think you are doing great so far.