Well, I was soo obsessed with detaching that I took classes, on all sorts of stuff.
I would do that when X was coming over to pick up the kids. So maybe an hour or 2 of my time.
I didn't want to just sit here and cry, b/c many a day I went to work looking like road kill from crying.
Now I don't have to occupy all of my time, anymore, it does come naturally. I can NOW hang out with my married friends again, that took a long while.
Slowly but surely you do get some normalcy, and I remember the first day I laughed loud. Like, tears coming down your face, I am gonna peeeee on my self, laugh. I caught myself then I started crying b/c i was so happy that I laughed again.
one day at a time sugar.
Blessings to you.
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