I will throw my 2 cents into here.. those folks on "we're seperated forum" know my sich.. anyways it will soon be 3 months of seperation (Aug 19)..
we live in the same house, different rooms.. as finance are dictating things a little, and the housing market is horrible.
I have lost 25 pounds, have gotten into the best shape since i can ever remember, quit smoking, quit drinking.. and just completely remain positive at all times, even if i get weak at times.. (which i do)
W and I are amicable. She has told friends she just wants to keep peace. She broke down crying after she sent me an email , and then snooped into my email when i was away on travel.. she then replied with a"it's over no matter what letter" to both me and a friend of mine that had been supporting me (she got her email by snooping thru mine)..my 180.. to not react, in the past i would have flipped! .. nope W is always trying to pull me into arguing and I refuse to do it.
Anyways I think going dark would hurt me personally.. as i spent 1 1/2 years working in the field 4 days a week and coming home for 3, etc.
