When I re-read it...I see what you mean. I removed it.
I apologize, it isn't the way I intended.
I was concerned about your self-care and you getting out. And I know you're on the boards a lot. I too am on the boards a lot, so I know we all have virtual frienships. And we commiserate here or help others here rather than going out sometimes or taking care of our own needs. You're a giver on the board.
Maybe you're not doing that.....so that's sort of what I was getting at.
I hope I explained it better this time.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001