Children will come to their own conclusions over time so there is no need to bad mouth or even push for their father to act as a "good" dad (as is your perception).
Cire, thank you for this reminder. You are so right. MY PERCEPTION, just b/c it is mine doesn't mean it is right.
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As far as wishing he would have just left and not looked back, it would have just created new questions and problems. With him here you will be vindicated in your childrens eyes one day because it seems that leopard can't change his spots!
Thoughts and prayers
Thank you Cire. Wishing he was not here is so selfish on my part.
I still hold out some small hope that one day they will change for his kids.
Prayers for you to buddy.
Thank you SG, now I know it wasn't.
BH thanks.
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