What GAL things are you doing that don't involve the club? I wonder how much of that is good. I've always found bars and clubs to be superficial interactions and maybe not the best way for you to be finding what makes you happy. Sounds like you did well this weekend so far, though.
Going with the flow and zipping the lips and not being nasty are all good things, Phil. Be patient.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.