I asked her what she wanted out of life and her answer was a good job, kids and a H that does not think she is stupid, wrong, or can do nothing right.
we have struggled with this for 12 years, becasue or her R with her folks if I give 100% support then its good if I give 98% support or have differing opions, its becasue she is wrong and stupid. I don't know how to make her see me for who I am and not put words in my mouth that could not be farther from the truth.
It sounds like the message you are trying to put across is coming through in the opposite way you intend. How do you put across different opinions? Is there a way you could show complete support AND have a different opinion?
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
