one person is hurt so they say it, the other person becomes angery or sad for casuing the hurt, the first person feels even worse about.
this is how we delt with her EA last year and i kept feeling worse for being seeing the hurt it casued her even though she did it.
I think we did it again when she left. she was hurt and told me I was hurt she was leaving she felt even worse for it so she does not talk to me anymore.
we have tried hard to break this cycle but it never fails
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
