Hey thanks for replying ,I have two children D21 and S14.Both know whats been going on.First few weeks mom was gone she tried to integrate my kids in with the new boyfriend.I got pissed and told her under no circustance were my children to be around him.So far she hasn't tried again.
I originally posted to the newcomers forum but didnt get much responce.I linked to my original post up top.

Jeff

M 44
W 40
D 21
S 14
Married 20yrs
Together 23yrs
Bomb on 5/14/08 discovered OM
W moved out 5/17/08
w filed for D Feb 09
D final 10/18/09