It's not what he tells her/him. It probably has more to do with what he pays her/him.
Sorry to be cynical.
Yes, but to me counseling a married man's relationship with an OW is almost like you're encouraging a crime or something? I mean I think you would have to be somewhat unethical to do that. And there are so many hurting people out there wanting to see Cs, I don't think they are that desperate for clients or shouldn't be if they are a competent C I wouldn't think. So I do think there is something wrong with that C. Karen
