Trixi,

You made excellent points in that conversation. I just wonder if, with any of these WASs, if logic will ever make a dent in their thinking. Clearly you are right, but he holds the cards. I think he will continue to take your relationship for granted as long as you allow it. Somehow you have to get the idea across to him that he is in danger of losing you. It is as in the old song, "you don't know what you've got til it's gone."