I'm still around every now and again, although W is dropping in any minute now. I'll try to read your sitch sometime today.
Glad to see people suggest others who are in similar sitches. There are a lot to draw on there. Thanks One Day (I see you are in the UK too, not far away).
In terms of my M and D. In the UK you can't D until 2 years have passed since sep - assuming a no fault D. That's probably the only reason why she hasn't filed.
Take care,
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)