Point 6 is the one to hammer home on the boredom issue. It sounds like it's the thing to focus on too.
He is responsible for making his life satisfying, not anyone else. That does not preclude being in a long term R - unless his definition of satisfying is having lots of flings. If that's the case, you wouldn't want an R with him anyway!
God, boredom is a risk for us all, but it's also under our control.
Sounds reasonably positive to me.
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)
