What do you do when the X clearly spends more time with the children of the OW.
X came to pick up the kids today ON TIME (which he never does) to take out kids to the bday party of one of the kids of the OW.
Mind you , he didn't go to his daughter's bday party in May b/c my D said she didn't want the OW there.
But X said he didn't go b/c I didn't give him the exact time of when the party started.
Anyway, my son said I don't want to go to the party, and X said to our son, You are going, and you are not going to be rude.
My son replied was it rude when you didn't go to my sister's party?
X said do not talk to me that way.
Ok so, what do you do when the other parent, does not follow any of the "divorce rules"
Like not using the kids as a messenger
Like not introducing the kids to someone else, right away, especially after they PLEAD. Especially after they look at X in the face and say, Why of all the dads in the world did those kids have to find mine.
Like not bringing them home on time
Like ignoring the kids when the kids say I don't want to go there, I don't like it there, I want to have one on time with you.
What do you do when he dismisses all and does what HE thinks is best.
B/c right now, my brain is fried. B/c all of the information I get is on how to coparent with someone that is reasonable.
What if the person could care less about any thing that is better for the kids and marches to his own drum.
Let me know if anyone knows, b/c the panic and the overwhelming feeling of my chilren not thriving b/c of his actions and my actions are going to be the death of me.
I wish He would of just left really, and not looked back. But I know they need a their dad right?
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