Thanks everyone.

Gforce, funny you said that, because H's line is "I'm a pr#ck but not a d#ck" when it comes to us talking about money and support after the D. He means he realizes he totally messed us up, but isn't going to leave me high and dry. There's that sliver of conscience. Small sliver, but its there.

Beth, my lady. You are right right right. In everything you said. Especially the part that H doesn't want to actually do the paperwork. He isn't procrastinating, he is just used to me doing the legwork. I have always been the rock, and yes, he doesn't always use that for good.

And he also loves to say "Oh you can't WAIT to get rid of me, look how fast you schedule these appts". I don't let him pull me in though.

Thanks again!!

And yes, cat, weekend was VERY nice, and drama free. I just avoided my live in wanna be x, and had a great time with the girls.