In Chris' situation there is no OW so he is being forced to see that his decisions for himself did not improve his situation. I think that is great for Chris. What I meant was that she needs to stop making overtures toward him because he is getting what he wants from her and then not having to face the loss as much. I really think that his telling her no might have been a good thing in the long run. It may serve to clear his head a little more.
I don't know anything though so don't take my opinions as anything other than the ramblings of a complete idiot.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!