In Chris' situation there is no OW so he is being forced to see that his decisions for himself did not improve his situation. I think that is great for Chris. What I meant was that she needs to stop making overtures toward him because he is getting what he wants from her and then not having to face the loss as much. I really think that his telling her no might have been a good thing in the long run. It may serve to clear his head a little more.

I don't know anything though so don't take my opinions as anything other than the ramblings of a complete idiot.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!