just so you know..for what it's worth I had to call someone to talk to me just so I could drive back here tonight.
just so you know, I don't know which f'in way is up.
So it's take the high road no matter what?
I am human.
My mom and I had talked when the pictures were sent and suspected that this was what was happening. It does not justify me telling her.
You don't live in this.
So it's just please and thank you?? Give it back please??
So it's just let a mediator tell her, "give it back to him"? the same mediator who let her sit for 20 minutes and tell everyone how she felt, let her rewrite history, let her say I was a suck ass dad. Let her bombard my ass for 3.5 hours..
It's share the wedding pictures with her?? Just hey, be a nice guy, she's not been nice to you at all..she has been a f'in [censored] through this whole process but hey, take the high road, send her all the pictures, I'm sure she'll send some to you...
Hey just share with her, she won't steal memories from you, your D's first haircut, your D's first movie in a theater, she won't leave you out and give those memories to her B**CH mother..
You're not here. You're not living this.
That's what my life is now.
You're not here.
Mike,
Unfortunately you are going to miss alot of your D first. It is the way of D. You tried your best to save your M, you tried your best to get along with your STBX. She wants neither of these things. You have too choices here. Continue to allow her to make you miserable and let everything she does effect you or you can ignore all this petty sh** she is doing and move on.
The bad part is she is using your D as a weapon to hurt you. You said she was a good mother how can this be when she uses someone so innocent and cute to be use in such a despicable way. She is lowering her self to a point you do not want to go. Do you really want to be that type of person? I would have to say from all your post that no is the answer.
Listen to Ian, his way is not the easy way but is the righty way ever the easiest.
Take care Mike, I know I do not know what you are putting up with or what a bit** your STBX is being but you have to look out for what is best and that is your one true love, you D, think of her first and everything else will not matter.
