Karen I am so sorry that you and your children are dealing with this. I am sure this will have some effect on your kids and I am glad that you are talking to the C about it.

My now XH is an ordained minister and has a degree in preaching. He knew better than to do all of this but he made the choice, just as your H has.

I think that was really low to do this on Aug 1, when your L is out of town...

Hang in there....you are a strong person.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08