Maybe XH isn't in the process of breaking it off with the OW. I have gotten several emails from her the past few days. The first one said something like "I did you a favor with Michael. He would have cheated on you eventually even if it wasn't for me." Huh? Does she honestly think that she "did me a favor?" What a joke!

The last email said something like, "I know he is a cheater and if you two are going to keep on talking and being friends I am going to end it with him." Now that one really is messed up. I ended my marriage because he wanted to be with her and now she wants to end their relationship because he wants to be friends with me? Whatever! I am so over this drama. I wont' talk to him anymore. No big deal really. She is such a bully.

At this point in my life there is no way I would take him back. Maybe 5-10 years down the road I would consider it, but right now I just can't.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08